Lent begins the our walk with Christ
towards the Crucifixion and resurrection. The season should be a time
spent reflecting on what separates us from Christ. The common
practice of 'giving something up' for Lent hints at this, as the
things we love often take our minds away from the Lord. Yet many
think Lent is a trial when it should actually help focus us on the
Cross. Despite the blood shed on the Cross our focus often gets lost
on the road to Easter. Why?
It
should be obvious that Easter is about sacrifice. Our Lord reminds us
of this when he tells the Apostles “No
one can have greater love than to lay
down his life for his friends
“ (John 15:13), yet we often overlook this despite Catholic
theology revolving around self sacrifice. Sacrifice is the foundation
of marriage, lies at the root of subsidiarity and solidarity, and
underscores our relationship with God. We are to die to ourselves in
all things. What does this mean in Lent?
The
First Commandment is to love God above all things. We are not to
worship false gods. Seems simple right? Most people don't have an
idol to Ganesh in their homes, nor do they carve images to worship as
God as described in the Old Testament. Idolatry goes far beyond that.
If you don't pray in lieu of doing something else then a good case
can be made that you love that thing more than God. Did you skip Mass
to watch the Super Bowl? If you did then you love football more than
God. See how this works?
Sacrifice
in our relationship with God means examining ourselves to see what it
is that we do that separates us from God. This can include finally
addressing sinful addictions like pornography, compulsive gambling,
alcoholism, drug use or any number of issues. It can also mean
looking at the technically non-sinful things we like and examining
our relationship with those things. If our love for them is a barrier
to our relationship with God then sacrifice is called for.
It's
a nice thought, isn't it? On a certain level we understand that,
given how many people give up Facebook, chocolate, coffee, or
whatever small luxuries during Lent. I myself gave time: more time in
prayer before a tabernacle or Eucharist. Yet the sense that I have is
that we can all do something more fundamental. We can all live in the
spirit of Lent.
Mother
Teresa understood best that Lent is about love: "Spread
love everywhere you go: first of all in your own house. Give love to
your children, to your wife or husband, to a next door neighbor...
Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be
the living expression of God's kindness; kindness in your face,
kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile, kindness in your warm
greeting."
The Christian life is supposed to be about living as another Christ
in the world. The spirit of Lent is to focus our lives in that image
as we march towards Good Friday and Easter.
Love
is the great command of the Lord. Love, or the lack thereof, defines
our relationships with each other, with God, and with those whom
Christ commanded us to minister to. Yet our love is so frequently
disordered by an inward focus that it is impossible to fully love
like Christ without reordering our lives and love through a total
surrender to Christ. Living in the spirit of Lent requires a total
surrender. My own Lenten sacrifice feels inadequate to the challenge.
Does yours?


